They do all exist in the same universe. The reason Iron Man and Captain America were included was because they had a relationship with someone in X-Men or the X-Men comics. If they didn't have a relationship with someone in X-Men, I don't think they'd be included.
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Lol he must've had some serious beer goggles the night he was with Rose Wu.
Wolverine doesn't get intoxicated, he did it because he could.
isn't this more of a marvel relationship map? Last time i checked, iron-man wasn't an x-men
and captain man america
oh i mean captain america...i dont know why i said man
It's titled X-Men universe relationship map so I guess they all exist in the same universe?
They do all exist in the same universe. The reason Iron Man and Captain America were included was because they had a relationship with someone in X-Men or the X-Men comics. If they didn't have a relationship with someone in X-Men, I don't think they'd be included.